ONE Impactful Question to Help You Cut Through The BS, Show Up And SERVE

Jun 06, 2025

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Hey love,

You know that feeling when there’s something you know you need to do—maybe it’s a task in your business, a hard conversation you’ve been avoiding, a next step you’re just not quite ready to take—but the energy behind it feels flat? Heavy? Like your whole nervous system just says, “Ugh, not today”?

Yeah, same. And guess what? That’s okay. You're not broken. You're not lazy. You're not lacking. You're just disconnected from the why behind the thing. From the vision. From the love, the freedom, the adventure that sparked this path to begin with.

So I want to offer you a simple but powerful reframe—one that has helped me, my clients, and even my ex-partner (shoutout to the chocolate fridge moment lol) move through resistance with more ease and soul alignment.

Ask yourself: What does this make possible?

Like… really sit with that.

 

🌿 When You Tap Back Into Your Why

When we get caught up in the “shoulds,” the to-do lists, or even just the general fogginess of life, it’s so easy to forget the essence of why we started. But when you come back to the frequency of love, freedom, presence—that state of being where you feel centered and clear? That’s where the magic is. That’s the soil you want to plant your actions in.

Because here’s the thing: every action you take from that embodied, tuned-in state carries that frequency. It becomes part of the ripple you’re sending out. People feel it. They know when something is rooted in soul versus survival.

It’s like a radio signal—you’re emitting your vibe, and your aligned people will tune in like, “YES. That. I want more of that.”

 

🌊 The Shift Happens in the Moment of Choice

So let’s say you’re facing something that’s kind of uncomfortable—a boundary to set, a scary investment, an email that needs to be written, a launch you’ve been putting off. Whatever it is, pause and ask:

“What does this make possible?”

For you. For your business. For your community. For your clients.

Does it open a new level of expression? Does it create more time, more spaciousness, more integrity? Does it unlock a deeper level of leadership, of freedom, of impact?

And if the answer lights you up, even just a flicker—that’s your sign.

 

🌀 Real Talk: Fear Might Still Be There

Sometimes even when we reconnect to the vision, the fear doesn’t just vanish. But now you’re not moving from the fear. You’re moving with it, guided by something greater. You're rooted in your deeper why, not just running on autopilot or stress responses.

One of my 1:1 clients recently told me that she used to feel like her vision was this far-off, unreachable dream—like something she could only aspire to, not lean on. But when I asked her this question, it brought that vision closer. It helped her remember that she could be held by it. It’s not just some future fantasy—it’s the wind in her sails right now.

 

🌱 Co-Creating a New Way of Leading

So the next time you’re stuck, procrastinating, or spiraling in overthinking, come back to this question.

Let it ground you. Let it guide you. Let it shift your energy so that you’re taking action not from obligation, but from intention, clarity, and aligned purpose.

And if you’re like, “Okay yes, I want to dive even deeper into this kind of embodiment and rewire how I show up in my business”—I’ve got you.

Right now, I have one spot left in my new beta 1:1 coaching program. This is for the soul-led, cycle-aware, freedom-desiring leader who’s ready to regulate their nervous system, embody their vision, and co-create their business from deep alignment.

We’ll work through my three-part signature framework to help you:

  • Anchor into your nervous system’s resilience
  • Reconnect with your inner truth and intuitive leadership
  • Take grounded, impactful action from your embodied state

🎧 Book a free connection call [link in bio or show notes], or slide into my DMs on Instagram (@cynthiagutierrez.coach)—you already know I love connecting with you in there.

Until next time, remember:
You don’t have to do it all from hustle or fear.
You can lead from vision.
You can root into what’s possible.
And that ripple? That becomes your legacy.

🌿 Want to listen to this episode instead? You can catch it here:

👉 The Spiritually Embodied Leader Podcast  Episode Link

With love,
Cynthia 🤍

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